Do I leave my husband?

Like all alcoholics, he needs to hit rock bottom before he will (maybe?) change. I know it's hard, but you've told him over and over what would happen if he didn't quit....now it's time to show him. He will either realize what he has lost and fix himself, or feel sorry for himself and drink more. Alcoholics have a disease, but they are the only ones who can cure it. This is how you need to present it to your son. I'd tell him you need to separate until some decisions can be made and see what he does next. I wish you peace.....